3 Ways To Flirt With Women
ByThere are many ways to flirt with girls, but they all fall into three main categories.
You can say something flirty in a proactive manner.
You can wait for them to do something or say something that you have a pre-planned response for.
You can also do a two-step process. First, bait them into saying something that triggers one of your preselected banter lines. Then wait for their response. Then give them the line.
Now, let’s look at some specific ways you can do these things:
PROACTIVE FLIRTING: This is when you initiate some flirtatious behavior or banter. You might bump into her, or look at her funny, or call her a silly name, or make a playfully arrogant statement about yourself. Active flirting can be very effective, if she’s in a receptive frame of mind.
PASSIVE FLIRTING: Passive flirting is great, because it appears spontaneous. A man who is great with passive flirting shows signs of having a very sharp mind. Here’s how you do it: you prepare responses to dozens of common things that women say and do. And then you wait for them to say or do them. Then you act like you just came up with a great response off the top of your head. Here’s an example from Swinggcat: suppose a girl bumps into you accidentally, you can respond by saying “Owww, you hurt me. Now you’re going to have to drive me to the hospital . . .”.
TWO-STEP FLIRTING: Suppose you have a line prepared for when a woman bends down to tie her shoe or pick something up off the floor. And suppose when she does that you plan to say “Oh, I don’t require people to bow down before me anymore”. But suppose she hasn’t bent down in front of you yet. You can wait and hope you have a chance to say your flirty line. Or you can set things up. How would you set things up so she bends down in front of you? Well you could secretly take something of hers off the table and put it on the floor, and when she notices and bends down to pick it up, then you could deliver your line.
If you want to learn more about all these methods of flirting, pick up a copy of the book “Flirting Deconstructed”.
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