Attract A Woman Quickly

Seduction is a wonderful game. This involves employing some amount of touching to get the girl interested. Picking up a girl is difficult without having first established mutual tactility. This is one of the great challenges when picking up women–since not all will not respond positively and may not even be open to your touching. How does one approach a girl to establish physical closeness without making the girl too uncomfortable?

Usually, men will just proceed on without taking into consideration whether the girls are already freaking out with their aggressive attempts to physical closeness.

Other men decide they dont want to risk putting a girl off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact ” doing so usually sends out the wrong message, that the guy is either not interested in the girl, or that hes simply too timid to show it, neither of which are attractive scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl. Okay, so whats the solution to this awkward problem?

Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or procedures, all of which conform to the personal boundaries of most girl (and therefore dont appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same time clearly indicate that youre a confident guy whos not afraid of getting to know girls and even showing it through casual, relaxed physical contact. So, lets take a look.

1. Some men may think that touching on first dates will appear disrespectful. This is only true if you do it the wrong way. You should of course do this in a casual and smooth way–not appearing to be physically aggressive. One must know that some degree of physical touching can quickly create a bond between the two of you. Like when you talk with her, you can also employ a gentle touching of her arms. This may make her a little bit uncomfortable, but not too much for her to take a step backward.

By touching the outside of her arms, you are merely being casual and you are not crossing the boundary towards over aggressiveness. Tapping or touching the outside of her arms will be effective in giving a clear signal that you are fond of her and you are interested–nothing more. Do this and see the results.

2. Once youve started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, its important to keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport youve already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt sexual attraction. You can use something called Stealth Tactility to do this.

What stealth tactility involves is some degree of casual physical contact, which is disguised, so that you get away with it while heightening your bond with each other. Like when both of you are in a bar, and she asks for directions, you can easily put your hand on her shoulder and keeping her body close to yours, while you show her the way.

3. As a last point, always end a conversation with a close physical contact. You can do this after exchanging numbers or saying goodbye. Give her a kiss on the cheek as you go.

Many men think that the hard works been done once somethings been arranged for a later date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a great way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you again.

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